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Make Your Own Self-Affirmation Flag Banner with Janie Johnson

Posted by strange on November 23, 2018
Make Your Own Self-Affirmation Flag Banner with Janie Johnson

Janie Johnson is a survivor of sexual and domestic abuse, and creates self-affirmation flags to help her healing process.

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Tell us about your self-affirmation flag banner.

My affirmation flag started in an art therapy group I participated in last fall. We were encouraged to create our own affirmations or choose from a list. I found the process of choosing resonant affirmations and creating something nurturing for myself incredibly therapeutic. On top of that, at the end of the process I was able to take the project home with me, allowing me to revisit the feelings of self-nurturing whenever I needed to. I kept my favorite affirmations on a list, and I continue to add and modify them. My flag is in my bedroom, and I also keep a digital version on my phone so I can access it wherever I go.

Posted in: Interviews, It's not as simple as just leaving, Me & My Story, Self Care, Self-Care Practices, Shannen, Thania | Tagged: affair, affirmations, domestic violence, janie johnson, sexual abuse, sexual assault

Diary Entry: It’s okay that I don’t talk to my brother, and it’s okay if I choose to later.

Posted by Janie Johnson Contreras on September 22, 2018
Diary Entry: It's okay that I don't talk to my brother, and it's okay if I choose to later.

Being decisive doesn’t mean being stubborn.

A year ago I made the decision to take a break from my relationship with my brother. I had reached a point where conversations with my brother became mentally and emotionally exhausting for me. Whenever we talked on the phone, I would hang up the phone feeling like I couldn’t be authentically myself. I couldn’t fully trust my brother and I didn’t feel completely supported by him.

Posted in: Janie | Tagged: childhood sexual abuse, depression and relationships, Family Issues, Family of Origin, family of origin problems, janie johnson, relationships, self care, self help, self love, sexual abuse, the strange is beautiful

We will be at Take Back the Night!

Posted by strange on March 4, 2015
We will be at Take Back the Night!

The Strange is Beautiful will be tabling zines at CSUN’s Take Back the Night on Thursday, March 19 from 6 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the Plaza Del Sol. Come hang out with us!

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