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Sadcore Sundays: “Kill” by Ivo Dimchev

Posted by strange on August 25, 2019
Sadcore Sundays: "Kill" by Ivo Dimchev

A mix of gothic dark pop, creepy orchestral arrangements, and eerie falsetto, Ivo Dimchev’s “Kill” fills souls with sadness and a shift of perspective simultaneously. Sadness to see people lose all faith that there is love left in the world, lose all strength to be positive, and fill up, survive on rage. The shift of perspective takes place there, the rage. An awareness of how depression can express itself as anger and harm of others is crucial to healing. Stress and oppression from the world want us to suffocate ourselves in our own rage. Rage can be used as a tool for good, it can be an ally. But when not harnessed, it can cause distortion of how we see and live in the world. It can cause us to lose the ability to enjoy anything or anyone and to only see the negative in everything. This song could be interpreted entirely differently, that a wounded heart can lead to violence, deaths, and killing. I don’t see this song as that, but instead, as the confusion of rage that has piled up for too long and continues to grow like weeds. An infestation of anger unable to be digested or used for good and transforms into a deterrent.

Posted in: Sadcore Sundays, Sadcore Sundays Features, Shannen | Tagged: creepy music, dark pop, eerie music, gothic, gothic music, ivo dimchev, ivo dimchev kill, kill by ivo dimchev, rage, sad music

Sadcore Sundays: “Grieving Spell” by The Bedoom Witch

Posted by strange on August 18, 2019
Sadcore Sundays: "Grieving Spell" by The Bedoom Witch
Grieving Spell by The Bedroom Witch

For those who have lost a loved one and are going through the grieving process, The Bedroom Witch is with you to feel your sadness and depression. Take a few minutes to feel all that is coming to the surface with “Grieving Spell.”

Posted in: Sadcore Sundays, Sadcore Sundays Features, Shannen | Tagged: grief song, grieving song, grieving spell, music for depression, music for loss, the bedroom witch

Sadcore Sundays: “We Had to End it” by Cuco

Posted by strange on July 28, 2019
Sadcore Sundays: "We Had to End it" by Cuco

In honor of Cuco playing a block party in Los Angeles today, we’re featuring his song “We Had to End it” for Sadcore Sundays. This is for anyone who’s been through a breakup recently and feels like the world is ending and there is no more reason to live. Cuco feels your feels <3

Posted in: Sadcore Sundays, Sadcore Sundays Features, Shannen | Tagged: cuco, cuco los angeles block party, depression music, mexican-american music, sad boy, sad boy music, sad music, we had to end it

Sadcore Sundays: “Slow Motion” by PHOX

Posted by strange on July 14, 2019
Sadcore Sundays: "Slow Motion" by PHOX

The first line of “Slow Motion” by PHOX, “Everything I do, I do in slow motion,” is relatable to me on so many levels. I remember with depression, I felt like I took way too much time to complete simple tasks, and that time itself was a sloth. With panic attacks, sometimes it felt like time had stopped as my depth perception went haywire. With mind obstacles sometimes the gut becomes ill, and with stomach problems or pain I’ve always had to slow down everything in my life, which is challenging if you’re working or in school or both.

Posted in: Sadcore Sundays, Sadcore Sundays Features, Shannen | Tagged: depressed songs, mental health music, mental health songs, mental illness music, mental illness songs, music for anxiety, music for depression, PHOX, sad songs, slow motion, songs for depression

Latina-American Teens With Depression Don’t Need DNA Testing, They Need Cultural Connection: “Some Girls” Documentary Review

Posted by strange on June 13, 2019
Latina-American Teens With Depression Don’t Need DNA Testing, They Need Cultural Connection: “Some Girls” Documentary Review

While scrolling through Instagram, I came across “Some Girls” documentary. I was excited to finally find a film that focused on depression in teen Latina-Americans, something I wished existed when I was in high school with depression. That day I texted Kelly Duarte, The Strange is Beautiful’s media and pop culture contributor, and we met up to watch it together for free on Kanopy, a video streaming service for public libraries. Though the documentary has a lot of great things about it, such as bringing awareness to this under represented and under researched issue, we were disappointed because it ignored many root reasons of why Latina-American teens are more likely to get depression, and disagreed with the creator’s choice to use DNA testing as a means of healing – especially because they claim it helped them, yet they never had depression.

Posted in: Kelly Duarte, Media Reviews, Self Care, Shannen | Tagged: #thestrangeisbeautiful, anti-blackness, anti-blackness in latinas, anti-blackness in latinos, chicano studies, cultural connection, dna testing, documentary latina teen depression, documentary on latina depression, kanopy, kelly duarte, Latina depression, Latina-American Teens, Latina-Americans, latinas, latinx, latinx depression, latinx teens, latinx youth, raquel cepeda, shannen roberts, some girls, some girls doc, the strange is beautiful
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